Since Valentines Day is coming up I thought I would blog about love and how to win a girls heart. Well at least this is how I see it. I think the main thing is to BE YOURSELF. If you are yourself around a girl, there is no doubt about it you can win her heart. So what if your goofy and do stupid stuff sometimes, as long as you are real and honest with her, she would be crazy not to fall. BE HER FRIEND is always an important way to win her heart, when you just meet a girl and she gives you her number or talks to you, do not just assume that since she gave you her number she wants to go out with you. DON'T come on too strong. So there is no need to ask and aggervate her with in the first time you text her or talk to her, "Can I take you to dinner?" or don't rush into telling her all these things about how you feel when you just met that day. More than likely shes thinking I do not even know you, just give it time. So in saying that just become her friend first, just get to know her before rushing into things. Make her feel like she can be herself around you and not put on that perfect girl act. MAKE HER LAUGH is a major one, if you can make her even giggle or smile, you are definitely closer to winning her heart. MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL, but not too special.Which does not always mean you have to buy her something, but to just show her some bit of attention, but not too much. As we all know, if you ignore a girl, you are usually the one that is on her mind. Well for me that is. But do not ignore her too much, because eventually she just may move on forget about you. HAVE GOOD HYGIENE is a necessity in getting a girl to do anything with or for you. A good first impression is essential, and smelling well is important including breath! Carry Listerine if that is what it takes. I know sometimes we cannot help it, but that is what gum and Listerine is for! ACT YOUR AGE-grown man status, do not try to act immature, plain and simple. BE CONFIDENT NOT COCKY. There is no need to act like you are bigger and better than others to impress a girl, just show your confident in yourself and she will like you just the way you are. DO NOT BE PUSHY. Do not push her to do things shes not ready to do, let everything flow with time. Also, DO NOT BE WOMANIZER or a pimp. If you want to win her heart, you cannot be messing around with many other girls and expecting things to just work with one. Do not go for her friend either, because that is just plain stupid. If you want to be a pimp, be a pimp. If you want to win a girls heart, win it! Last but not least, LOVE HER inside and out. Show her you care and be there for her. Let her be able to trust you. Just use your heart, and you will win a heart!
Everyone is different, and every girl may not think the same, but for me I think this pretty much clears it up.
Happy Early Valentines Day!
XOXO
